michellelarson-40916 The overall dynamic of the movie was beautifully made, and fitting for its time. Though times have changed since then, such as certain use of language, stereotypes, and knowledge, the movie gives a solid overview on the life of people with mental disability in the time of the 90s.The in-depth and personal take on the struggles of the family members is motivating and creates a relatable film for not only those with disability, but also the relatives. It teaches the importance of education as well, for not only the person with the disability, but especially the parents. The mother is a prime example of a parent who clearly needed a structured source to educate her on how to best handle certain situations with a child who has a disability, as well as having a young adult daughter with a disability.It was clear that there were other characters throughout the movie who did not have an understanding of mental disability through their taunting and lack of care. Though, this did not hold true with everyone. One example being the man who lived in the basement beneath Daniel displayed great passion and patience, something that is extremely valuable for a person with disability.Though the mother tried to submit her daughter to fit into the confines of a tiny figurative box, the movie excellently displayed the beauty behind allowing Carla to grow and build independence for herself. This rings true in the lives of real life people who may identify with Carla and can be inspired to believe in themselves to reach their goals if they work hard and set their mind to it.

dymingirl00 I have seen this movie a few times and always liked it. It is one of those that always brings a tear (or more) to my eye. I rented this flick because I wanted my Fiancé' to see it too. He is not the type to watch Romantic comedies and really enjoy them but he enjoyed this. One thing we both had to comment on was how Superbly Juliette and Giovonni pulled off their characters. That is not an easy part to play and have it come out realistic. I for one was pleased to see Juliette portraying something other than a skank in a film. I have loved Giovonni since he was on the NEW Leave it To Beaver show in the 80's.So this was a refreshing love story and also let you see how a family trying to handle this situation, even with tons of money still go through difficulties.My fiancé enjoyed this film too and we would recommend it to anyone who just wants a break from movies filled with explosions.

Arielle Beautiful story, fabulous cast... Hector Elizando & Diane Keaton kick @$$! ^_^ Juliette & Giovani deserve frickin' Oscars or something for their awesome job in this film.... this movie is extremely realistic to those of us with disabilities. I was born with Epilepsy.. my mom has always been over-protective while my father refuses to acknowledge it.. He sees meas perfectly normal, like my sisters & brother. for the longest time, my mom wouldn't et me do the simplest things my siblings were allowed to, while my father was all "go for it" I found this film to hit very close to home for me. It is high on my recommendation list for other people. 10 Stars! **********

Annette wild (annettewild2) This was an insightful view of what most people living with disabilities go through. Being that I have worked extensively with people with disabilities for many years, I can completely relate to many of the scenarios that go on in this movie. For example, I have had to argue on behalf of the people with disabilities regarding their personal choice. Family members (mainly mothers) often feel that their disabled child is not capable of doing activities that bring them closer to their independence. People don't realize that like everyone else, people with disabilities grow up to be adults capable of making their own personal decisions. People with disabilities often get ignored by people who don't know how to approach them. Juliette Lewis (Carla) and Giovanni Ribisi (Daniel) do a great job in portraying the daily life struggles, goals, and relationships of people who have disabilities. Good Job, Well done!