morrison-dylan-fan Whilst waiting for my dad to turn up,I talked to a family friend about movies about to leave Netflix UK. Going down the list,he pointed out an indie Comedy Drama that he had greatly enjoyed a few years ago,which led to me giving in for a viewing. The plot:While trying to be supportive of their daughter Abby suffering a terrible skin condition,Alex and Kate run a store specialising in used modern furniture. Feeling bad about making profit from those who don't know the value of their furniture,and also weeping due to her plans for an extension being ruined by cranky neighbour Andra.Feeling that Abby's skin condition might be improved by a visit to a spa,Alex goes to a spa run by Andra's granddaughter,and gives more than he ever expected.View on the film:Playing off each other, Catherine Keener and Oliver Platt give excellent performances as Kate and Alex,with Platt giving Alex a straight ahead,robust approach that neatly bounces off the crossed- wires of Kate. Feeling guilty over needing Andra to die for the extension,and uncomfortable over how much the furniture makes,Keener gives Kate a bitter Black Comedy edge,where every attempt Kate makes to feel better backfires. Joined by a scene stealing Ann Morgan Guilbert as Andra, Sarah Steele cuts deep into Abby's primal scream to pour out Alex's fraught weaknesses.Taking inspiration from the Mumblecore genre,the screenplay by writer/director Nicole Holofcener gives the free-flowing dialogue a darkly comedic flavour,with the arguments between Kate and Abby being fought over the imperfections standing at odds between the mother/daughter. Placing everyone in a state of arrested development, Holofcener brilliantly rolls out a fully developed family,where the private issues Kate,Abby and Alex are dealing with are threaded with the overlapping family problems,in a movie which donates to the viewer generously.

donwc1996 This is the kind of film that gives films a bad name. As I watched it I kept saying to myself can it get any worse and invariably it did. Everything was wrong. The premise was depressing, the casting was dreadful and the acting was worse. The script and the director are clearly at fault here and since both were done by the same person, that person is what is wrong with this film. How she ever got financing for this tripe is beyond me. The problem is that two of my very favorite actresses are in the film and which kept me watching for as long as I did - Catherine Keener and Amanda Peets - both of whom did the best they could with an atrocious script. The rest of the cast was okay at best but no one really stood out to keep me watching to the very end. I finally bailed out after 45 minutes.

Eumenides_0 When does caring too much become a problem? This question plagues the lives of Rebecca (Rebecca Hall) and Cathy (Catherine Keener), two women who have in common the 91-year-old Andra (Ann Morgan Guilbert). Andra is Rebecca's grandmother and Cathy's neighbour. Rebecca, a radiology technician, has given up a personal life to take care of her grandmother. Cathy, who owns a mid-century furniture store, can't wait for Andra to die so she can break through the old lady's apartment and expand her own. Rebecca helps people at work; Cathy buys valuable furniture at cheap prices from naïve people who want to quickly dispose of their dead relatives' possessions. Cathy has a family – a husband, Alex (Oliver Platt), and a teenage daughter, Abby (Sarah Steele); she has financial success. But, unlike Rebecca, she doesn't have peace of mind. Taking advantage of people's vulnerability starts taking a toll on her. She starts feeling guilty. We all like to see ourselves as better people than we are and we try to demonstrate (at least to ourselves) our goodness. Cathy tries to assuage her guilt in many ways: she refuses to buy her daughter expensive clothes; she sanctimoniously preaches about helping the homeless. She even volunteers to help the elderly.Please Give is as much a movie about caring as it is about guilt, in its many forms. Cathy, for all her opulence, only has a happy life on the surface; and Rebecca, without a life, seems to take pleasure from her job and from caring for her grandmother. As the movie opens their lives have started moving in opposite directions: Rebecca meets a potential boyfriend through one of her patients and starts living a bit; whereas Cathy grows more distant from her daughter, going through her rebellious phase, and from Alex, who meets Rebecca's sister, Mary (Amanda Peet), and starts an affair with her.Please Give is a typical indie comedy/drama: the story doesn't move towards a resolution or climax, it just captures slices of these character's lives at crucial moments. The goal isn't physical, the conflict is wholly internal. These characters wrestle only with feelings, ideas and their social functions: Abby, like any self-centred teen, deals with her pimples, which make her feel like a monster; Rebecca slips into the role of the good granddaughter because there's no one else to fill it. Mary only cares about herself, retaining her beauty and stalking her ex-boyfriend's girlfriend to understand why he dumped her for her (Mary's shallow, unbearable personality may be a clue). Cathy seeks atonement.Andra, we find out, also volunteered in the past. And yet she's a very spiteful person. Mary didn't like her. We can intimate that Andra has always been a disagreeable person. Her daughter killed herself with pills. Was she fed up with Andra? Did Andra take up volunteering because she felt guilty? Cathy's guilt, in the context of Andra's blaming herself for her daughter's suicide, seems very petty. What she does isn't really that horrible, is it? She tricks people, yes, but, like she says, if not her someone else would. At which point does guilt become just vanity? Some people carry it like a badge of honour. This is Cathy: she preaches to her daughter about spending too much money on jeans, she gives leftovers to the homeless. But she continues to sell expensive furniture that she bought almost for free. This movie is better appreciated if we go prepared to see the irony in it.In 2010 good dramas were built on invisible, metaphysical goals. What was Hereafter about but the attempt to understand and be at peace with death? What did Another Year show but characters fighting the meaninglessness of life? In Black Swan a ballerina struggled with the most intangible of quests: the search for perfection; and even if I disliked the movie I must praise it for its audacity. Not all characters must have clear, material goals. Please Give follows in this vein in its exploration of the private world of its characters.This type of plot can make a movie look like a shattered mirror: some scenes shine in themselves, but the whole reflects a fragmented imaged. The solution is having coincidences wrap everything up, like in Hereafter, or just accepting that real life doesn't follow a linear path towards closure. So Please Give feels a bit disjointed, incomplete, but this is more a movie of scenes that float independently in our heads.The actors, with the help of a witty screenplay, deliver excellent performances, with particular compliments to Catherine Keener and Rebecca Hall. The actors don't light up the screen but that's because the script calls for subtlety rather than theatrics. Steele captures the selfishness of teenagers; Platt does a great job as the husband tired of living with his wife like a business partner. Peet and Guilbert compete for the most annoying personality and it's a testament to their talent that their rudeness and callousness doesn't make them any less fascinating than the others.I think whether people will like this movie or not depends greatly about their approach to life: those who see the world as a big joke will probably love it. Those who take life too seriously may not like the movie's message. What should the limits of caring be? Ourselves? Our family and friends? The whole world full of strangers? Are we selfish if we don't care about the suffering of others? Or should we carry the world's problems on our back? How we answer these questions defines what we'll get from Please Give.

ThurstonHunger Karma was once a foreign word in English, it remains a foreign concept. Generally it is depicted as a sort of yo-yo, when in fact it is probably some askew aspect of string theory. An 11th dimension connection between disparate people, times and events.This film worked for me perhaps better than other viewers. While there were some treacly sentiments, how can I not like a film rooted in questions like:How come I am not a better person even when I try?How much did it cost to make (or buy from a bereaved relative) this thing?Whatever happened to the Roches?Hey, I had not heard their Moonswept album, did not even know they reunited. Their cover of Paranoid Larry's "No Shoes", which you can listen to at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nh2T7Q2LfHswhile a bit repetitive, does sort of parallel the spirit and whimsy of this film. Toss in a frazzled Catherine Keener (is there any other), a flawed but charming Oliver Platt (are these people acting or just terribly well-cast?), and a role for a cranky old woman (not enough of those) and you've got yourself a film.I just watched the trailer, and it misleadingly puts the comedy completely at the forefront, but the soul-searching of Keener is what made this film a little bit more than an excellent ensemble juggling the urbane and the polite. Somehow this film struck that spot inside me that feels life is unfair (even when I have a pretty damn fair share myself in the big scheme of things), but even though we know life may be unfair, you've still got to fake it.And for me it's easier to fake it when the Roches hum a few bars...