Erica Farnsworth
I saw this movie in my church several months ago and it keeps coming back to me over and over again. Usually when I enjoy a film this much I don't want to see it again because I don't want to ruin my memory of how great it was the first time round. It came up in conversation with two different people a few weeks ago (when two other couples were talking about a planned wedding for a friend of ours) and I decided this would make a good wedding present. So I ordered the DVD for a gift and when it arrived - I couldn't not watch it. I ended up ordering another one for the gift and 4 more for others.The second time around was a different experience. The movie was actually better. Usually, knowing how something is going to end can ruin the set-up. This time it actually gave it another level of drama and expectation. The richness of the stories and the way they are layered together is so effective because it pulls you in on a purely emotional level. Maybe my expectations for a "talking heads" documentary were very low - but whatever the reason, the thoughtfulness and sensitivity that went into this one just makes for a great movie. The music is to die for and this is one of the few DVDs I've ever bought where the extras actually added to the experience of the whole -- rather than demystify and hype the main event.I'll add that my husband had no interest in watching the movie and after popping his head in the den a few times to find out why I was laughing, he finally plopped down on the sofa and watched the rest of it with me. Near the end we were holding hands and I looked over and he was totally tearing up. Afterwards he said, 'That was pretty good.' Now he wants to watch the whole thing from the beginning.
tlmces
The individuals who participated in this documentary could easily be anyone's sister, brother, uncle, aunt, grandparent even. The relationships are genuine, beautiful examples of the strength of love.This film should be required viewing for everyone. For those individuals who doubt real love can exist between same sex people, this film will be enlightening to them. Love is love, respect is respect, but most of all, love is not defined by society, it is defined by two people who care deeply for one another.This documentary demonstrates the truth about the majority of gay and lesbian relationships, rather than the stereotypical 1% of gay and lesbian folks on whom heterosexuals make their false judgements on the remaining 99% of gays and lesbians.See the film, judge for yourselves. It is worth your time.
Bev Seeley
My husband and I saw this recently. We went because we have a lesbian daughter and wanted to support alternative points of view. I didn't realize it would be so damn funny! The music is amazing, the people in it are incredible. We both walked away so uplifted by the experience and talking about it for hours. I had hoped to gain some insight into my daughter's relationship (I did) but didn't expect to learn so much about my own. It's really quite amazing. I could've done without one couple at the end but it didn't take away from a wonderful experience.Two thumbs up from our family -- four when it comes around again and we take our daughters.
haa-4
This is a tribute to the human heart. Bravo to Drew Emery! If you haven't experienced this film you need to, and in a theater with others. The energy in creates in the theater and in the heart of the viewer is a treatment for all that ails intimate human relationships! This will make for the perfect family viewing experience and holiday gift giving. While legal battles must be fought to change the laws surrounding marriage equality this film changes hearts and minds in every audience that views it. Its reach is beyond the gay/straight boundary and as all great film reaches beyond time. It has deeply moved members of my entire family from 14 to 85 its message reminds all of us that the struggle to truly love in our culture takes courage and resilience. Take the time and effort to find this film near you and note it for purchase when it becomes available in DVD format.